Well, I spent two days putting this modpack together and making it work. If you can't spend like a half hour learning how to use multimc and adjusting your memory allocation then, this probably isn't the place for you.
I even made a tutorial video of how to do all of that. I just posted that, I meant to get around to it earlier but, I fell asleep after being up for 30+ hours straight.
If you can't understand that I'm tired of being at the mercy of ftb and want complete and total control over my server, then this isn't for you.